i like this~

taken frm an an post...
as i would like to share again...

i feel it is well said for Uni life..
sth really true...
sth we shud know...

when we r in Uni, we will only realise:

1. nvr argue with others, as it will bring no gud no matter who is rite or wrg.
2. when u treat someone sincerely doesnt mean u will hav gur returns, and those whom u
neglected are always those who actually care about u.
3. a lot of things u cannot ask for it as many things u can only own it once.
4. a lot of times when u are unhappy, nvr think tht ppl will sympathize u as majority will treat u
coldly. this will only let ppl look down.
5. ppl's characteristics can be so diff tht u would nvr could predicted.
6. u hav to treat urself well as less ppl who really care for u tht will not be ur side when u needed
them, therefore, hav to learn to be independant by taking care of urself.
7. ur results will drop when u do not realise it and u could nvr pick up before ur finals.
8. money is spent quickly as money is needed in everywhere.
9. from now onwards, appreciate those who can hold on to, let go those whom u no longer can
grip on, dun let go a group of frens for only one person.
10. dun lose ur anger to the ppl around u when u are angry, asking or seek for their understanding. they are not ur parents, now u will understand how important is ur parents to
u.
11. u will face a lot of things tht u do not like or could not accept, but tht is none of ur business.
do not need to care or get angry, it does not worth it.
12. u will face a lot of temptation, no matter how, u r u, u hav ur own rules and limit. it is ur
choice.
13. when u learn, u hav to learn how to take it and endure it as only base on intelligence to
handle Uni subj is not as easy as it seems.
14. u will realise when u hav free time, u will feel bored, nth to do where it is no longer the
sae as secondary life where ur time is occupied wisely.
15. over caring bout someone will only hurt urself.
16. u can dun be frens with everyone but u cannot make an enemy. at least still be mates.
17. a lot of people hav thoughts n action tht u might not und or u might not know wat they
are thinking, nvr waste ur time thinking or simply guess, tht will only make u feel tired.
since tht person wanted to keep things personal, just let them be. why make urself
troubled?

agree with this article??
100% agree...

a lot things is out of ur control...
a lot of things we could not predict or care too much...
a lot of things is meant to happen tht way...
a lot of things we shudden make a big fuss...
a lot of things we hav to learn to let go as we gripped too tightly, we will be tired...
a lot of things we shudden see frm one view, why?
(there is a lot of things is nth we could just see or tell by using our eyes..
there is a lot things is not wat it looks...
there is a lot things where explaining just isnt enough...
there is a lot of things is where we had to feel n und by ourselves..)

when we hav diff opinion, we hav to learn to stop and listen
we hav to learn to accept others instead of just following wat u wanted...
this world is bout adapting....
being part of this world is how well u adapt to the environment..
the environment is constantly changing..
we hav to learn to keep up...
adapt to it quickly...
or we will be excluded...

things always has two sides...
is how we look at it...
some might just think wat they think is rite..
some will actually listen to both side only they judge...
some might just ignore n pretend tht it nvr happen...
some dun even wan to be in the prob...
this is all choices...
ur choice to play wat kind of role...
there is no rite or wrg is playing which ever part u wanted to be...
it is ur way in adapting to the environment..
just do more observation rather than always the one talking where u will often neglect wat is actually happening around u...

learn to be quiet sometimes n observe..
u will find out things tht u will nvr know by always talking...

absorb uself ba...
is just my opinion~
nites everyone~

(Diana) <3